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It's Friday and look, the weekend is here ...whew!!! All over the world and here in my beautiful country Nigeria, It's about to go down (if you know what I mean 😉😉😊😊). You all know that here in Nigeria, we sure know how to have fun 😉😉 and create a great weekend for ourselves. But first, I hope you had a great week,so you can have more reasons to enjoy the weekend. This weekend, stay with the right friends, not the ones who'll lead you astray. There are consequences for every action whether we did them in ignorance or not.  That homeless man on your street,  close to your home, should smile because you did the least thing like asking how he is doing. That poor lady, who sells in a kiosk just down the block from your house should have her face lit up in a broad smile because you stopped to patronize her and even add a tip for her, these ones sell to survive, trust me. Kindness is easy, be generous with it. Look out for friends and family, show them

5:50 a.m... I woke up this morning, turned to look at your face; peaceful, rested, far away in dreamland but right here with me, soft snores and some heavy breathing in between, reminding me of our most intensely passionate moments. I pulled the duvet over your chest, admiring every bit of you as I do, snuggling up to your warm embrace, thankful for the gift of you and the love you so generously show me.  How did we even evolve into this? How did you help me conquer my insecurities? At what point did you help me realize that I could be my own woman , be free to disagree over an issue without being battered, be free to throw tantrums and not worry about losing you in the process, be free to express my naughty fantasies with you without being judged... How do you even make me smile endlessly and laugh with careless abandon without a tickle from you? I love how you excite me, excite my mind, challenge me in the best of ways.  I am amazed at how you believe in me even in t

We made it to another great week 👏👏👏😊 and oh! Happy Happy Eid holiday to all my Muslim readers around the world, I got my share of the Sallah fried, spicy rice and chicken from my neighbour yesterday..yummy! Let me jump-start your week with some curvy candy. Got a few style ideas for the new week that I thought was worth sharing. Remember the popular saying "Dress as you want to be addressed"? This week is the time to get all dressed up, dolled up and go chase your dreams, Hun, so dress for it.  Plan your week, pick out your clothes for the week and get them ready, you are about to slay, so you might as well have fun with it. No one in their right minds will ignore a well dressed woman or man 😃😃😃 Try to be early to all your appointments this week. I used to be a perpetual late comer at a point while I was working with a bank, and amazingly, my home was just 10 minutes drive to the bank but I was just in the habit of waking up so late, taking my t

Oh Hey 👋😄😆😊😊😊, It's been a wonderful week here;  fair weather , rains , sunny and it's officially summer somewhere else too ...cool. Happy Weekend. I just thought to share a few Ks with you that I wrote and read to myself every once in a while, I hope this brightens your day and motivates you in some way. They are; Keep dreaming:  How big are your dreams and aspirations? Do they scare you, do they challenge your core, does it look like it is so far fetched? However big your dreams, goals and aspirations in life are, they can come true. just keep working at it one day at a time and trust that it will happen. Malcolm Forbes once said, "when you cease to dream, you cease to live", so keep dreaming because, no matter how much you have achieved,  there is always something better, new heights to attain,  more profitable opportunities. Remember, Lupita Nyong'o said that no matter where you are from, your dreams are valid and yes they are!   Keep your

Ever found yourself at the point where something happened and you just wished you had listened to the voice within you when it warned you? Sometimes, we need to listen to the voice that tells us subtly to walk away, take the plunge and give it a chance, from the beginning. That precious gift God gave us called guts; that instinctual, deep-seated feeling that subtly gives you the nudge to go ahead or screams "retreat" within you. It's not about being alone, its not about the fear of growing old and grey alone, it's not being afraid of losing money or your investments,  it is not enough to desire a partner's cuddles, kisses, passionate moments and everything beautiful in-between. Life has taught me, like it has most of you, to look beyond these; maybe experience has shown me that these are not just enough. Perhaps, there is more to me and you than rolling on the sheets in ecstasy, making babies, shopping at luxury malls, taking holiday trips and all. It i

If you are plus size, full figured, curvy, get in here! This post is for you 😄😊.  I know that sometimes picking out clothes while shopping, putting together the pieces you have available that will give you that smart, lush look as you step out, can be quite a challenge. So here, I have put together a few tips that could help. Colours:   Once you are plus sized, you may need to be a bit careful with colours, try to pick colours that would enhance your complexion, some coloured clothes  depending on how it is tailored could bring too much attention to the some of the bulges you may want to keep a bit tucked in 😉😉😉. I would recommend darker shades like brown, maroon,black, deep purple etc. If you choose bright colours, then make it patterned, floral ones. Then again, Once in a while, it's OK to be bold and look different with bright coloured pieces such as pants, blazers or dresses.  Fabrics:  Being a full figured lady myself, I have learnt overtime that not a

That moment ,when I am tempted to feel that perhaps I was not good enough for you, that I am inadequate, and don't deserve you, that moment when I feel the pressure of the need to prove my worth to you; I pause, sit back and remind myself who I  really am; a jewel waiting to be purchased from the master craftsman, masterpiece of my Sculptor, worth being treasured. I remind myself that I have invaluable substance, and I am a blessing to any one blessed enough with the gift of me, full of beautiful flaws, beautiful, loved you like my life depended on you. I am an asset you just lost. I remind myself that I am capable of receiving and giving the kind of love you read about in fairy tales or watch on telenovelas, the very kind you have secretly yearned, hoped for, in your heart. Perhaps it isn't me, I was too good for you and you couldn't handle it, maybe you are yet unwilling to learn to accept this magnitude of affection, or could it be that you are not mature enough