MUSINGS FROM A SISTER'S HEART...

Ever found yourself at the point where something happened and you just wished you had listened to the voice within you when it warned you?

 Sometimes, we need to listen to the voice that tells us subtly to walk away, take the plunge and give it a chance, from the beginning. That precious gift God gave us called guts; that instinctual, deep-seated feeling that subtly gives you the nudge to go ahead or screams "retreat" within you.


It's not about being alone, its not about the fear of growing old and grey alone, it's not being afraid of losing money or your investments,  it is not enough to desire a partner's cuddles, kisses, passionate moments and everything beautiful in-between.

 Life has taught me, like it has most of you, to look beyond these; maybe experience has shown me that these are not just enough. Perhaps, there is more to me and you than rolling on the sheets in ecstasy, making babies, shopping at luxury malls, taking holiday trips and all. It is more about purpose, finding it, living it and the blessing of being with  someone who would be willing to support you fulfill that dream and goals even as you do, his/hers. It is about striving to leave a legacy in a world that is so full of distractions and destruction.


Just in case you are waiting for someone to find you, looking for find someone or something, working towards and getting ready for  that next great opportunity that God and life will bring your way in any endeavour, or just trying to make a simple life decision, listen to the subtle voice that speaks to your heart. It seldom misleads. but mostly importantly, learn to listen to God.

 It would save you from a whole lot. So, listen!

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