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SEX & THE PHYSICALLY/MENTALLY CHALLENGED

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I had a conversation with a friend of mine a couple of weeks ago and after that I took a while to think if I should write something on this or not. What triggered that conversation was that, a crippled woman on a wheel chair pulled up beside my car in traffic asking for alms; She had an obviously malnourished child who should be about two years old with her and was clearly pregnant with another child. My big rhetorical question was "What kind of person would do this to this woman?" Every now and then we hear stories of physically and mentally challenged people being sexually abused especially the people with mental disabilities, they are raped, maltreated and neglected, sometimes by the very people who are supposed to protect them. They are sometimes left at the mercies of strangers and the cycle of abuse and uncertainties continue. I know that people with disabilities whether physical or mental also have sexual needs because they are human beings with emotional

HELLO CURVY & FABULOUS

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I got some really cool pictures of plus size models in beautiful outfits and decided to post them here for all of you stylish, curvy and fabulous ladies. No matter what the occasion is, there is always a proper dress for it. Accessorize !!! Remember that accessories add to the glamour of your beautiful dress and make up. Pick the right shoes, the right earrings, purse or bag and your make up should make you look classy and chic and not like a "Calabar Masquerade" Pick the right dress colours. Colours  that enhances your complexion  and goes with your accessories as well. Avoid big skirts and tops and any other dress that doesn't flatter your full figure, you want to bring attention to the right places and not look drab. Garner Style Confidence is key, it makes you walk tall and trust me, confidence is sexy. It definitely adds springs to your steps as well. Never forget that you rock no matter what shape, height and skin colour you are. W

EVEN SOME CHILDHOOD DREAMS DO COME TRUE

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Happy New Year everyone!!! I took a long time off the blog, call it an extended Christmas holiday Lol. I sat down today to reminisce on some of my childhood dreams  and fantasies and while some made me laugh out loud, some showed me just how silly a child's mind can be sometimes and some brought that It -came- true smile to my face. Like I posted on my Facebook page earlier today and got a number of hilarious responses, I remember as a little girl growing up that, every time Michael Jackson 's videos were played on TV, I would watch excitedly and say to myself that when I grew up, I would definitely be a Mrs. Michael Jackson. He was my absolute childhood idol. Michael Jackson                                          It graduated to the dreams and fantasies of being a Mrs. Kenneth Babyface Edmonds and having him sing  all those amazing love songs to me for the rest of my life. Kenneth Babyface Edmonds As laughable and as silly as these may sound, there were other d